Let me take stock of my own life. I've got a family consisting of my mum, dad, sis, bro, grandparents and aunt. I've also got a boyfriend of 4 years (which isn't very long, though many would beg to differ). I've got a relatively good career (though i still keep messing up in my job regardless of how hard i try). So what now?
It looks as if I've got everything that many would like to have. It doesn't mean that I'm satisfied.. Much.. There's still something missing.
Round Gary came yesterday. We planned to have a day to ourselves only (which is getting rarer as the months pass). We're played Halli Galli (which I lost EVERY SINGLE ROUND) and Game of Life (I lost one -- by about $300k, and won one -- by about $600k). and we talked about a whole lot of things and us.
Well, about the us part. It was pretty hilarious. I told him a story about a Korean show I watched some time ago. And we had a laugh about it. Then I told him that if we were to be living together, then he had to "obey" certain "prohibitions". He asked what they were. And they were:
- cannot go overseas without me (unless it's for business) -- he said "ok"
- must let me know who he's meeting (especially if it's the opposite sex) -- he said "ok" too
cannot think of anything else, I started putting in conditions for staying together.
- Monday, Wednesday, Friday and Sunday, it's his duty to wash the plates -- he said "he's having 2nd thoughts"
Funny right? I can restrict his personal life but cannot get him to participate in household chores. Haha. Well it's all a joke still.
Think about it, we're still young, and we still value our freedom (more me than him I guess). But as a female, I guess I still have dreams of how the proposal and the wedding could be conducted.
Haha. I still want my proposal to be a romantic one (though it's not going to be possible with our dear Gary being so un-romantic.. I can always hope that he'll change because of that special day right??). I also want my wedding to be superb-ly classy and nice. But of course, it's still early days. And I still won't give him any answer if he asks now. HAHAHA... because of financial and logistical issues (go figure that out yourselves)
Heeheehee.. So HINT TO GARY: just spoil me just this once k????


